one thing that’s been proven time and time again for me: negative talk or gossip about someone we call a friend or with whom we maintain the illusion a respectful relationship shows we hold no connection sacred. simplified: if you (they) are talking shit about someone, you (they) are talking shit about everyone. when someone says something to me about another person, a part of me shuts off in my instant awareness that, in all their insecurity and fickleness, they do this to everyone.
i’ve had enough of behind the back talk, insult, criticism and judgment. i don’t want to be that kind of person and i don’t want to be around that kind of person either.
it ends here.
it ends here because friendship means too much to me and because i don’t have time to spend with people who aren’t authentic. to each and every one of you who are dear and true, love. xo